May 31, 2010
Memorial Day Ideas with Grandchildren
I would like to offer some ideas on how grandparents can be more involved with their grandchildren on Memorial Day.
About Memorial Day: Memorial Day is a holiday celebrated in the United States of America to honor those who have given their lives in service to their country. (Other countries also have a memorial day.) Many Americans also honor their ancestors, family, or friends on Memorial Day. Some people also honor veterans that are still living, which I think is cool, although Veterans Day is set apart for honoring all veterans.
Teach your family and grandchildren the significance of Memorial Day. Enjoy time with them. Here are some ideas:
- Talk to your grandchildren about the meaning and importance of the holiday.
- Write a letter to them or share a journal entry.
- Show your respect and appreciation through your example.
- Go with your grandchildren and family to decorate a grave of a soldier of ancestor.
- Together, thank a living veteran in person or by letter or email.
- Attend a parade, concert, or festival. Visit a national cemetery or monument.
- If you can’t be with your grandkids in person, have a live video chat with them. (See my post “How to Video Chat with Your Grandkids”)
Here are a few websites that offer free Memorial Day activities and craft ideas for children:
Enjoy this Memorial Day with your grandchildren!
- Grandpa Shayne
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December 23, 2008
“The Christmas Box” book giveaway
As a way of saying thank you to our readers, we are having a Christmas giveaway. We will award 35 copies of the New York Times bestselling book, The Christmas Box, by Richard Paul Evans. He originally wrote The Christmas Box as an expression of love for his two daughters, never intending for it to be published. Now, many Christmas seasons later, this touching tale relates the meaning of Christmas in a profound but simple way.
This book was the inspiration for the many angel statues around the country which are places to remember a child who has died. Mr. Evans founded The Christmas Box House International, an organization devoted to building shelters and providing services for abused and neglected children. To date, more than 16,000 children have been housed in Christmas Box House facilities.
The most important story we will ever write in life is our own — not with ink, but with our daily choices. ~Richard Paul Evans
The Christmas Box – Richard Paul Evans shares his story.
“So,” you ask, “What do I need to do to get one of these free books?”
Just two easy things: First, we want you to subscribe to GrandparentsTLC.com, either by email or RSS. Subscribing is free, and lets you know as soon as new posts are published.
Second, we want you to share with us a favorite holiday activity or tradition you have with with your grandchildren. Holidays such as Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, or a special New Years Eve party. To qualify, your story needs to be a minimum of 100 words (about 9 lines in the comment field). Write your entry in the comment section of this post.
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So spread the word, and let the comments commence.
Thank you. We look forward to reading your entries.
By the way, If you already own a copy of The Christmas Box, you can gift this to a grandchild or a friend.
- Shayne and Tanda Packer
We will mail a copy of this book to you at no charge. So be sure to enter your correct email address in the email field. We will contact you for your shipping address. This free book offer is good only while the supply lasts. Entries will be accepted until midnight January 5th, 2009.
[Update: Please feel free to add your story, even though this giveaway has ended. No more books will be given out. Each of the people who commented before the deadline will receive their book.]
Filed under Activities, Announcements, Holidays by Grandpa Shayne
December 13, 2008
Favorite Christmas webpages for grandparents


Christmastime is a delightful season! Especially when you share it with your loved ones. Grandchildren love to receive thoughtful gifts from grandparents. But more importantly, grandkids love to feel that special kind of TLC that only Grandma or Grandpa can give. Whether it’s through a personal visit, a package of homemade goodies, or via some form of modern technology — connecting grand-to-grand is a special gift grandkids look forward to with an anticipation to outshine the jolly ol’ elf in the red suit himself. There’s lots of fantastic resources on the web where Grandparents can get ideas for projects, crafts, stories, gifts, etc. Grammy Tanda and I share with you here, our favorite Christmas webpages for grandparents. Some of these links are from our very own subscribers — other grandparents who have websites or blogs — with helpful ideas and tips for that loving connection with your grandchildren.
Uncles and aunts and cousins, are all very well, and fathers and mothers are not to be despised; but a grandmother at holiday time is worth them all. ~Fanny Fern

We know it can be frustrating at times to find what you’re looking for on the internet, so we hope these links will make it easier for you. Enjoy browsing our favorite Christmas web pages.
- Grandpa Shayne
(Tip: right-click or command-click the links to open them in a new tab so that you can refer back to this article.)
- Make a gingerbread house with your grandchildren
- Free Christmas gifts you can make for your grandchildren
- Nana’s Corner - Santa’s Favorite Healthy Chocolate Chip Cookies
- Nana Finds - Homemade Christmas treats and other ideas
- Insightful Nana - Free Christmas Printables
- Grandmother Wren’s Christmas Pages
- Advent Ideas to Share with Grandkids Near and Far
- Songs about Santa
- Free Christmas Activities, Puzzles and Crafts for Kids
- Create Christmas Photo Greeting Cards on your computer to mail to your Grandchildren
- A Review of the Childrens Book “Christmas Tree In The White House” with suggestions of other books by author, Gary Hines
- A story about a family who cannot even afford Christmas dinner, much less gifts under the tree
- Inspirational Poetry of Connie Arnold for the holiday season
- A short talk about Christmas traditions by Grandma Joy
- Online Shopping For Finding The Best Christmas Deals
- 13 Days of Christmas Giveaways
- The Ten Best Christmas Songs For the Kid in You
- Crafty: Shrinky Dink Your Christmas Tree
- Santa Claus Can Call Them For You
Let us know if you have a favorite Christmas webpage. Your comments are appreciated.
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Filed under Activities, Holidays by Grandpa Shayne
November 25, 2008
Favorite Thanksgiving webpages for grandparents
A fun part of the holidays are family traditions. I want to share some tips for celebrating Thanksgiving to give you ideas for establishing your family traditions. Then Shayne and I will share our favorite Thanksgiving webpages with free resources for grandparents. Because as you know, the web is a world of discovery.

The first thing I think of about Thanksgiving is families getting together, sharing food, fun, and laughter. Food often reminds us of our favorite memories of Thanksgivings past. Relationships are being built while taking time to share favorite memories. Small activities give us opportunities to connect with our grandchildren in comfortable ways — while we’re setting tables, eating, cleaning up.
Take time to share memories with your grandkids of Thanksgiving when their parents were little, or when your were little. How it’s the same, how it’s different. Tell them what your parents and grandparents were like so they feel a connection with their heritage. Reminisce what their parents were like as children, and things you remember about your grandchildren as babies. Share family stories. Everybody has favorite family stories that get past around, embarrassing moments, silly times. Often, repeating those stories over meal times becomes a family tradition and builds fond memories.
Many families have traditional activities they share together — a family football game, a walk in the crisp fall air. One of the things my family did when I was a child was watch the Macy’s Thanksgiving parade.
One Thanksgiving tradition I started when our family was young is to set 3 kernels of corn by the side of each place. Each of person takes a turn telling 3 blessings they are grateful for. This idea represents the friendship the Native Americans extended to the Pilgrims in teaching them how to survive in this new land of America. They taught the English colonists how to grow corn and thus helped them survive their first year in Plimoth Plantation in New England. This led to the first Thanksgiving feast.
So, enjoy your family and your traditions. If you can’t all be together, use the blessing of modern technology to connect with your family this Thanksgiving. It’s all about making memories!
A happy family is but an earlier heaven. ~John Bowring
Grandpa Shayne and I have so much to be thankful for. We will be enjoying Thanksgiving with 3 of our married children and 5 of our grandchildren. Even though it will take us all day to get there, it will be well worth the trip. ♩♬♪ Over the river and through the woods to our grandchildren’s house we go. ♪♫♩
We express our gratitude for you, our dear readers and friends. We wish you a delightful Thanksgiving holiday with your family and loved ones.
- Grammy Tanda
Now, enjoy these links to our favorite Thanksgiving web pages. (Hint: right-click or command-click the links to open them in a new tab so that you can refer back to this article.)
- Plimoth Plantation for Kids - coloring pictures, stories, recipes…
- Disney Family.com – crafts, recipes, printables, decorations, games…
- Disney Famliy.com – how-to videos
- SandwichINK.com - Thanksgiving fun making handprint wreaths, trees…
- SandwichINK.com – more Thanksgiving ideas
- GrandmaIdeas - Fun Thanksgiving games to play with your grandchildren
- GrandmaIdeas – Make cute Thanksgiving holiday decorations (edible)
- GrandmaIdeas – More activities to do with grandchildren on Thanksgiving
- Joan Adams – Fun Thanksgiving Songs
- BeTheWeightYouWant - make pumpkin bowls and dip, eat with ginger snaps
- Peggy George – Thanksgiving Scrapblog and inspirational online movie link
- The story of how a Thanksgiving Prayer became a Family Tradition
- Nana – Gratitude, The Power In Being Thankful For Life!
- Thanksgiving Day photo greeting cards create memories for grandchildren
- Teddy Bears should be Given to All Children
We welcome your comments. Tell us about the Thanksgiving traditions your family share.
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Filed under Activities, Holidays by Grammy Tanda
October 31, 2008
Favorite Halloween web pages for grandparents
Do you like surfing the web to find articles and tips about grandparenting? There’s a lot of useful information on the WWW. Grandpa Shayne and I are always looking for fun way to connect with the grandkids. We’ve collected some of our favorite Halloween web pages for grandparents.
Halloween is a wonderful time to share with the family. It’s especially fun to see the grandkids all dressed up in their favorite costumes. Here’s a photo of our 6 month old grandbaby in the cute costume I bought at 60% off. Hey, I’m like my mom, always looking for a bargain!
A grandmother pretends she doesn’t know who you are on Halloween. ~Erma Bombeck
I teach family and consumer science, I’ve always admired Erma Bombeck. She was such a practical homemaker.
Shayne is a Cub Master, and one of his Weblos is a budding artist named Zac Willberg. He draws comics and publishes them on Zac’s Cartoon Cave blog. Shayne commissioned Zac to draw a special comic strip for today’s Halloween post. Boo is the main character (a ghost). Ancient is his girlfriend (a mummy). Today, there’s a special guest appearance by Boo’s Grandma.
Halloweenies by Zac Willberg

One of our favorite cartoons by Zac is his Charlie Brown Halloween.
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Favorite family-friendly web pages with ideas for grandparents
Nana’s Corner – Halloween recipes and poems
Nana Finds – Special halloween books for grandchildren and Ideas for homemade Halloween costumes
Joan Adams – collection of fun Halloween songs and lyrics. (Joan says “I hope you all have as much fun with this site as I have! We love to sing with the grandchildren! Our two are 5 and 6 years old, so they are the perfect age for learning all the fun Halloween favorites! Enjoy!”)
Grandma Ideas – Halloween ideas for grandchildren
Grandmother Wren - Family Alternatives to Halloween
SandwichINK – Sharing God’s Love on Halloween
LoveMyGrandchild – Halloween ideas
FamilyCorner – Lots of Halloween ideas
ParentHacks – Best Parent Hacks (tips and ideas that work for grandparents too)
GroupCard – Free Halloween ecards (the whole family can sign an ecard)
Bluemountain – Free Halloween ecards (free month trial)
DLTK’s Crafts for Kids – Halloween Activities for Children (halloween coloring pages, printables, worksheets, craft projects, games and puzzles, online games, pumpkin carving patterns, recipes)
Babble – Just in Time for Halloween: How to Make Your Own Slime
Radiant Ideas – Tips for going green this Halloween
What are some of your favorite Halloween web pages? You are welcome to add your family-friendly link in your comment.
Have a fun Halloween! – Grammy Tanda
Hey, I’m on twitter now!
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